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https://americankahani.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/61jo9mQ8SGL._AC_UF10001000_QL80_.jpg1300906Growing up in California, I celebrated Bhai Phota and Rakhi to honor and preserve our cultural traditions as Bengalis and Indian Americans. We also celebrated these festivals, so that my parents could make sure my brother and I would be there for each other in times of need. These rituals (bhai phota: putting a tikka…